Raising children can be challenging. Here are some helpful tips. If you don't have kids, then think about when you were a kid.
First, praising a child’s accomplishments boosts their self-esteem.
Children develop their understanding of themselves through their parents’ attitudes. Everything counts: parents’ words, body language, voice.
If you praise children for even small accomplishments, you will make them feel worthy and proud. If you trust your children to do things themselves, they will feel capable and strong. On the other hand, if you compare your child to others or belittle them, children might feel worthless and doubt themselves.
Second, try to compliment more than you criticize
Imagine you have a boss who always criticizes and never praises you even when you are trying really hard.
Think of how many times a day a parent reacts negatively to something that their child is doing. It's a good idea to catch a child doing something right and praise them. For example, “You washed the dishes without being asked! Great job!” or “You were very patient with your homework today, even if you don’t like this subject that much. That’s very good!”
Third, be consistent with limits and discipline
Children will test boundaries. It is important to set limits for them so they learn self-control.
Establishing clear limits helps children to understand expectations. It's better to set a clear rule, for example, no computer games until their homework is complete. It's also good to have a clear system of consequences if they misbehave. For example, no dessert if they don't eat their vegetables.
